just wanna "fa4 xie4"

Here’s the story:

I sold all my form 5 books to one of the ELS committee member and I would like to call her A. Besides selling her all the text books, I did also sell her some of the new revision books which I didn’t even have a chance to read them. I did also give her many revision books that will be useful for her. Since we got a lot of notes in some of the subjects such as sejarah, English, Physics….. I gave her all those notes. When selling her all the books, I left some text books without being paid because she said she wasn’t sure whether she want to take the books or not.

After giving her those notes, my tuition student’s father called me and he wanted to extend another hour so that I can teach his daughter Matematik and English. Since I gave some of my English notes to A, so I need to take it back from her by cheating her that my relatives need those notes and it is very difficult to reject my relatives. I know it is very sui1 when u give somebody something and then take it back, but since I gave her discount more than 50% on some of the text books and I gave her many revision books and notes, in this situation, I think it is ok to “take it back” from her lor..

I called A. She told me that she wanted all the text books that I left at her house.( those text books which haven’t been paid). After that, I told her I want some of the notes back, she said she need some time to photocopy them. We agreed that I will go to her house on Tuesday to collect the money and my notes.

She sms-ed me after 20-30 minutes.
Her sms: I give u the photocopied notes, can? I want the original one.
My sms: Sorry huh, i would like to take mine,is it ok for u?

I thought she will say she will then take the photocopied notes, but I was wrong.

Her sms: Cause I think the original one is better. The pen ink is dark. For the photocopied notes, the notes was not very clear.So, I wan to take urs.

My sms: Really sorry ler..i would have given them to you if it was not for my relatives( I cheated her). So, I want to take my lar.

Her sms: it is not very fair to me lo

I didn’t reply her because I was stunned by her attitude. The fact is, I didn’t SELL her the notes, I GIVE her, I don’t know why she said that it was not very fair toher. If I really want to reply her, I think I will reply: “ It’s not very fair to me either”. But I didn’t do that, because if I really did that, it shows that I am really “small gas” LE… She is a du2 sheng1 nv3. I think her mum always give her what she wants. I don’t think that there is any point for me to reply her and to argue with her. Replying her and conveying her the same message that I want the original notes will only waste my time, my money. I will see whether she want to give me the photocopied notes or the original notes. Actually, just wanna fa4 xie4 only lar…not angry with her anymore because I was the one who did wrong in the first place. I should not give anybody else the notes if may use them in the futher. Actually, I also want to clarify that the main reason I angry with her was not because she don’t want to give me the original copies it was because her attitude. She didn’t appreciate what I have given her. That’s what I dislike about her. Fortunately, all of my friends don’t possess such attitude.

Anyway, I am glad that I at least learnt a lesson from A(To A: “THANKS”): next time other people give you something, please at least express your gratitude to her or him. He or she does not owe u, he or she can give the “something” to somebody else. “THANK YOU” is very important, at least it shows you are a polite and educated. So, be nice to everybody despite their station or whatsoever, you never know when u will need their help.

Ya, a very thank you to Aaron.(I am sure u know what it is)
Goodbye to xinmin.
Happy Studying A-level to joean,pikhui and kai
Pls: if pk hui u saw this,pls don’t tell your sister or ask her anything about it, ok? thanks

Miss Ya.