I DID SOMETHING

Hair is everthing to me...

I was bored...


BEFORE

I CUT MORE THAN 10cm...

AFTER

Joean said i am very brave...

I still couldnt believe i did something like that....

In between, unlike wc, I went to salon......

Highlight of the week

There were some happenings for the whole week and i guess the debate competition invitation would be the hightlight.

When i was having lunch this afternoon, i received a call from Ivan (HE is the president from Public Speaking Society, and i remember HE is quite good looking. In between HE is a GUY)HE told me that there is a debate competition from 15 Feb -17 Feb in MMU which is located in Melaka. All the accomodation, transportation, meals are sponsored. It sounds attrative and he asked me to check with my debate mates since we were the champion last year.

So, it sounded very interesting and i called up two of my debate mates and they are GUYS.( you will know why do i emphasize "GUYS" so often later)

Both of my debate mates seemed very interested and quite excited about it as well and therefore me and zhuo bin(one of my debate mate, he is a GUY) met up with Ivan 20 min later(The president GUY).

After meeting up with Ivan, we actually read the rules and regulations of the competition which was faxed by the MMU authority, and we found out something very interesting...

ONLY FEMALE/LADY/GIRL can participate in the debate competition.

Oh Yeah, you didnt read it wrong. It means that no GUYS are allowed in the competition.

I was hurt that time, because i was bombed at the moment we saw that rule.

So, taking into consideration that i have lots of mid-terms and assignments to hand in in Feb, i actually reject the offer.

Erm... an opportunity to represent UTAR to participate debate competition(althought UTAR sounds very beh in general), but it is an opportunity. Whatever...I have made my decision and noone is gonna change my mind although the GUYS kept on persuading me to participate.

Hope that more opportunities are coming.

Yesterday i chatted with a client. I was quite impressed with the Indian girl. Her father passed away when she was 14 years old. ( I am not impressed with this fact lar)

I suppose she is now 21 or ss years old. She actually requested an Accounting teacher for her younger sister. Later on, she kept on bargaining with me on the price of the tuition fees. Being courteous, I praise her that she is a very good sister, care about her younger sister's academic results so much. Only that, she started to tell me a little bit about her family background.

She told me not only she has to bear her own living expenses(eat, drink, live), car loan, tuition fees for university, she also needs to in charge of her younger sister's tuition fees (approximately RM300-RM400 per month, NO KIDDING)
She says she is very willing to pay for her sister's tuition fees as long as her sis can get a good result. She tries to save money from eating out, going out with friends just to pay her sister's tuition fees.

OH MY GOD........so伟大。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
I mean i wish she is my sister...KIDDING LAR...

But if i were her position, i will feel TIRED sometimes lor... :) Wish her all the best!!!
Just to remind everyone around us, actually we are very BAHAGIA

For the very first time in my life...

He doesnt move ...AT ALL

I lived in this place before. ISnt it COOL???

Oh yea..the background does look like a picture

For the very first time in my life.....I went to ALISAN

Oh yea....




I guess i am just a bit fu yan to write captions for the photos...

台湾观摩团 2

Me underneath the "UFO"

Oh ya.. do u recognise the background?

It is just a beautiful sunset

Me vs My victim. She is a taiwanese who was being cheated by me...

He is a gentleman. This is all i can say

Another gentleman i met.

Oh...this girl's style is very "KAI" (Kai is an adjective)

Me and Min in Taipei!

My hotel with plasma tv with over 80 channels

捉奸在床？？

My roommie who was damn surprise when she found out i dont have a bf.

"Live like there is no tomorrow", i guess this is what i learnt from the Kuan Moo Tuan (KMT). although it is just a simple phrase, it takes a long time for you to actually apply it to your daily life.

Before & During the trip in taiwan, i could not understand why the previous member of KMT will say this is a golden opportunity for us to broaden our perspectives in life.一生人只有一次。

It is real though, i will never have a chance to go to a foreign place & live with strangers for 21 days. I guess i just understand why ppl always say 一生人只有一次.

More to go....

台湾观摩团 1

I just came back from taiwan yesterday. On 30th Dec, i met with min in tapei and it was really nice to see her again after she went to taiwan for her studies.

That day i mentioned to xin min that it seems that i dont really have any deep feelings regarding this trip. (Please imagine, out of 33 members in a group, at least 23 cried on 29th december, i am one of those who didnt cry) So, i guess i am just a cold blood person? no idea at all. However, After i came back yesterday, i feel so weird that i am not in taiwan, the weather in mal is DAMN HOT & i see malay and indian all around, i dont have to live in hostel, i can wake up whenever i want &etc...etc...So, at least i am a bit 不舍得.

I miss my tour guide 小侯， He is so cute and sentimental. He cried in the airport when we needed to check in and dare not to look at us because he was crying. So regret that i didnt hug him.... I went to see his blog, oh gosh, miss him so much! This is what he wrote about his feelings when he sent us to the airport yesterday.

"從一早上遊覽車...
一直到桃園機場我沒說什麼話...
覺得什麼都不該說...
不要讓他們帶著眼淚離開台灣...
從領登機證、寄行李一點事情都沒有...
也讓所有人的情緒不至於太過低沉
跟他們一樣的嘻嘻鬧鬧...
一直到上手扶梯到了機場的二樓
看到了三個字...
“登機門”
我的天阿...
好可怕的三個字...
它代表的意思是
“THE END”
所以我崩潰了...
下來到外面的時候
我看到所有的輔導員都是紅著眼睛的...
不管資深的還是資淺的...
我在帶團中總是懶的與學員們合照
以前都不重視這些與學員們的回憶
這次回來就覺得我有的東西怎麼那麼少...
我想我會努力去收集這些回憶的...
帶完這團我改變了好多...
太多天了...
可以讓一個人變化很大的...
發生的事情太多了...
一時之間也講不完...
就這樣吧!!!! "

Anyway, there are a lot of happenings in taiwan. I visited tons of places, met tons of ppl, gap tons of leng luis & leng chai & realizing that i didnt meet a lot of leng zhai for the past 19 years.

To be continue..

A day out with Yc and Ys

• I went out with yc (yik cai) and ys(yen siang) yesterday.
• Times square
• Yc cut his hair before we met but Ys had not cut his hair
• We watched "enchanted" although Yc, Ys &me feel like watching "the kingdom" It happened because of the following conversation:

YC: Ei, which movie do you want to watch?

J : Cincai lar, you choose

YC : Then ar , "enchanted" lor . ( Yc thinks every girl will certainly like this kind of movie, so he preceived I will DIE to watch enchanted so much and that's why he suggested that movie)

J: OK lor ( I thought YC wants to watch the show so much as he said his brother kept on recommending this movie. Furthermore, "enchanted" is the only movie he mentioned to me since the night we went out , so i presume maybe YC wanna watch it, then i cincai go for it)

After we bought the tickets and finished the show, only we find out that everybody wishes to watch "the kingdom", what the heck? So, i think this incident happended because we took consideration for each other without asking his/her opinion.

• After watching movies, just do some chit-chatting
• It seems that they are quite sien studying in Singapore
• THey kept on mentioning "sien" during our conversation
• I guess because they just lack of this X factor in Singapore that makes them sien.
• The X factor i meant is "girlfriend"
• We chatted for 1 hour and decided to do something exciting.
• We went to the 15 minutes salon and asked YS to have a hair cut.
• Oh gosh, after the haircut, i feel so much better when i talk to him. His hair was damn messy.
• that's the only updated i have.

Good morning, good afternoon, good night.( time zone difference)

Baby : Ask Ph to watch "enchanted", Yc, Ys & me concluded that ph will like that movie very much

Taiwan : i am coming soon

What i like about you

GODDDDDDDDDDD....


"What i like about you" IS SOSOSOSOSOSOSOSO FUNNNY

GOD!

I have been laughing all the way.

OMG...I LOVE THIS SHOW SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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BEN IS SUCH A HOT GUY! OH GOSh

Why students fail their exams?

It's not the fault of the student if he/she fails,because the year ONLY has 365 days.
Typical academic year for a student:


1. Sundays - 52
Sundays in a year, you knowSundays are for rest.
Days left 313.

2. Summer holidays - 50
where weather is very hotand difficult to study.
Days left 263.

3. 8 hours daily sleep - 130 days GONE.
Days left 141.

4. 1 hour for daily playing- (good for health)means 15 days.-
Days left 126.

5. 2 hours daily for food & other delicacies(chewing properly & swallowing) -means 30days
Days left 96.

6. 1 hour for talking(human is a social animal) - means 15 days.
Days left 81.

7. Exam days - per year at least 35 days.
Days left 46

8. Quarterly, half yearly and festival (holidays) - 40days.-
Days left 6

9. For sickness - at least 3 days.
Days left 3.-

10. Movies and functions- at least 2 days.
1 day left.

11. That 1 day is your birthday.How can you study on that day?!?!?!?!?!?!

HAPPY DEEPAVALLI

8th November

I LOVE WILAY

OH MY GOD, I LOVE WILAY SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My little note book

Just Bought a note book which costs me RM0.70 . ( I think many of you seldom see "RM" ald).

Alright, so the purpose of the notebook is to record what i have been doing all these days.

According to Dale Carnegie, in order to improve our own living and to know how many precious time we have been wasting, what we can do is that we can try to record the activities in our daily life.

So, i will startrecording what i do each day and what mistakes and accomplishments i make each day.

Why i want to blog it, cause i know if i blog it, i WILL DEFINITELY DO IT..

OK...I need my action now.

The mistakes of the day:
1. I talked too fast to my client on phone just now. (So, next time talk slower lar)
2. I remembered a client's name wrongly (So, next time make sure you remember her/his name, NAME IS IMPORTANT TO EVERYONE)
3. I quoted the wrong rate. ( GOSH, you better remember twhat you have told each client!)

The accomplishments of the day:
1. ....
2 I am enthusiastic in working now and ever!..
3. ...*Thinking hard*


ADD OIL ADD OIL..............

So, any updates from me?

1. I am having my holiday.
2. I am selected to participate 台湾观摩团.
3. I found out that there is a girl named 刘于琳 who is a participant too.
4. I found out that my name is very popular ever since i was born by my mum.
5. My results just out 1 day ago.
6. I am addicted to ROTI TELUR recently.
7. I finished watching The Appentice 6.
8. I found out there are a lot of leng luis who are very brilliant like Stephanie ( T.A. 6)
9. I received a msg from yik cai 2 days ago " I am going to USA next year" ( good for you lor!!!!!!)
10. I chatted with hong ping yeasterday and played "HEXIC" with KLCC yesterday. HE LOST ......AGAIN..
11. Joean has a blog which i knew ages ago: www.joean88.bogspot.com
12. I miss singing K...NOW..
13. I went for shopping. I finished shopping in sungei wang and Isetan whithin 90 minutes.
14. I went to kepong Jusco and finished shopping within 35 minutes and shopped for the 2nd round within another 20 minutes when i found out my mum STILL IN THE SAME SHOP.
15. I answer around 30 calls per day.
16. I have 3 handphones now.
17. I wish my brother luck for his exams!!!
18. I miss going with friends!!!
19. I miss watchign movies
20. I bought Harry Potter's dvd 1 month before but i havent even watched it yet.
21. I miss buying things for myself without thinking about the price.
22. I miss Nando's
23. I just had my dinner in Pizza Hut alone and found out i didnt bring my wallet.

被录取了！

越没有强烈欲望去要求的东西， 越容易的到。

原来凡是要顺其自然

very lazy to upload..so, just 1 photo and 1 video

:-) Friendship (-:

Many people will walk in and out of your life.

But only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.

To handle yourself, use your head;

To handle others, use your heart.

Friends
Anger is only one letter short of danger

If someone betrays you once, it is his fault;

If he betrays you twice, it is your fault. (why har? if he betrays me twice, he will no longer exist in this world)

Great minds discuss ideas;

Average minds discuss events;

Small minds discuss people.

He, who loses money, loses much;

He, who loses a friend, loses much more;

He, who loses faith, loses all.

Beautiful young people are accidents of nature,

But beautiful old people are works of art.

Learn from the mistakes of others

You can't live long enough to make them all yourself.

Friends, you and me...

You brought another friend...

And then there were 3...

We started our group...

Our circle of friends...

And like that circle...

There is no beginning or end...

Yesterday is history.

Tomorrow is mystery.

Today is a gift.

That is why it is called the present.

619

I am not the girl who is obssessed with this kind of thingy especially horoscope. Because i think horoscope just divides human being into 12 types. this kind of sheng1 ri4 mi4 ma3 also divides ppl into 365 types. But just viewed it in a website, so just post shaung


6月19日迸出火花

6月19日出生的人，能够同时激发出别人最好与最差的一面。虽然他们并不是故意刺激别人，但旁人多半还是会反应强烈，很少有人能够完全不在意。似乎当他们在场时，就有某种威胁的力量产生，容易引发敌对的状态。不过，他们强烈的冲劲和坚忍的毅力，确实也令人佩服。


这天出生的女性相当具有说服力，目标明确，而且无论是事业上的晋升、学习的更上一层楼、情爱关系中的彼此回馈或是财务的稳定，他们都知道自己确切的需求。另一方面，男性则较为稳重而有干劲，他们总是正面迎向问题，极力解决，完全不认为有所谓的命运安排这种事，但也因为这样的性格，他们的路总是比较艰难。总而言之，这天出生的人不论男女，都会积极地督促周遭事物正常运作。


他们从不屈服于外来压力的精神虽然令人敬佩，可是有时候却会显得太顽固，丝毫不肯修改。事实上，适度的妥协反而让事情更顺利。不管这样绝不屈服的坚持到底正不正确，他们就是会把妥协看成是出卖了自己的理念、抱负和期望。


他们擅长激励别人，能使最懒惰的人也不得不行动。他们良好的说服力与行动的勇气绝对是良好的典范。或许他们用来鼓励他人的手法有点过分，但不可否认地，有些人偶尔就是需要被狠狠地踹上一脚；而且即使某些人当时觉得有些怀恨在心，但日后还是会感激他们当时的好意。

然而他们真正的问题在于无法、甚至是拒绝支面对自己能力以及所扮演的社会角色的限制。他们如果把自己逼得太紧或太急，只会让自己濒临崩溃，甚至陷入万劫不复的深渊。或许他们真的能在压力之下表现出色，但时间一久，这些压力便会产生后遗症。此外，这天出生的人还应顾虑到这种拚命三郎的生活方式，是否会对家人及所爱的人造成不好的影响，也许他们身边的人并没有心理准备要面对这样的生活？


如果这天出生的人能更了解自己及周遭事物，就能趋吉避凶，获得更好的成功机会。只要给自己更多的选择空间，懂得绕过阻碍，而不硬着头皮正面对抗，就等于朝往正确的方向迈出了一大步。


幸运数字和守护星 6月19日出生的人，受到数字1（1+9=10，1+0=1）以及太阳的影响。因为6月19日是双子座与巨蟹座交界的第一天，深受月亮的影响，所以这天出生的人可能在心智及情感上会有强烈的冲突。这些特质再加上数字1有野心、不受压抑的倾向，便可能导致工作上的问题。在精神成长方面，学会让自己内在、外在都平静下来，对这天出生的人来说，是很重要的课题。


健康 6月19日出生的女性要特别注意，太多的活动会把自己累垮、引发疾病。此外，还应该避免过大的精神压力，才不致对周遭环境抱怨不停。选择一个舒适的居住和工作环境，对他们会有帮助。至于男性则应多注意持续出现的疾病征兆，或是情绪沮丧的预警，这些有可能是各种重大慢性疾病的症状。另外，拒绝别人也是这天出生的男性很难处理的问题。其实不论男性或女性，心理和平衡对他们的健康都很重要。他们的饮食变化丰富，若能把才华发挥在烹饪创意上会更好。建议只做温和的运动，诸如散步、游泳等，冲击力较小。

建议 学习多沉思，避免固定在任何一种倾向或角色中。多去了解别人的感受，以更开放的态度面对妥协。


名人 翁山苏姬(Aung San Suu Kyi)缅甸人权运动领袖，她名字的意思是“结合无数神奇胜利的光明体”，曾经多次被捕入狱。后来荣获诺贝尔和平奖。
美国社会名流辛普森夫人(Wallace Simpson)，温莎公爵爱德华八世为她放弃英国王位，一时引为美谈。


凯萨琳透娜(Kathleen Turner)美国电影演员，曾主演《绿宝石》、《玫瑰战争》等名片。
英国小说家鲁西迪(Salman Rushdie)，因发表著作《魔鬼诗篇》，引起伊斯兰教徒的反感，声称要将之处死。


美国洋基棒球队一垒手盖瑞格(Lou Gehrig)，素有“铁马”之称，三次获得空前的打击得分，职业生涯共计得到2130分，名列最有价值球员之一。
法国哲学家及数学家巴斯卡(Blaise Pascal)，在1646年设计制造出人类史上第一去注射针筒。
塔罗牌


大秘仪塔罗牌的第19张“太阳”，可说是所有牌中最好的一张。它象征知识、活力和幸运，也代表值得受人尊敬和回报。牌面正立时，代表清澈、人际和谐及美好的名声等等正向特质；牌面倒立则表示骄傲、自负、虚伪等不利的反向特性。
静思语


不和猎豹赛跑，不与袋鼠比拳击。
优点 人际关系密切、有恒心、勇于接受挑战。
缺点 爱挑逗、烦恼、缺乏警觉性。

换了歌，换了心情

我听歌， 听旋律，很少听歌词。。。但偶尔也会听听啦！！！

有点伤心。。。
为什么个个要在我考试的时候离开，
然后离开后，我考试就刚刚结束？？

剩下我自己和那冗长的假期...

已经预料大家都会离开，
预料了就不会伤心。。。。。。。

大家要保持联络咯！！！！！！！！！！
好久没有听别人叫我刘于宁了。。。


考试加油！ 于宁！！